In travel, as in life, it is frequently ‘different for girls’. The goals, needs, motivations, desires and strategies of lesbian travelers often differ from those of our male friends.
Lesbians have to ask questions that the boys don’t. If accommodations are advertised as gay/lesbian, will we find ourselves the lone ladies in a boy saturated, clothing-optional compound? If a guidebook listing merely states gay-friendly, does that also translate as lesbian-friendly or lesbian-popular? While the travel industry is pumping up the offers and holidays for GLBT travelers, the information provided about holidays isn’t always as distinct as it should be.
For gay women, it is vital to research in advance the lesbian factor of venues we plan to visit in an unknown city. Your safety, comfort and holiday happiness can often depend on it.
If you are considering other travel packages, be sure to compare like packages. Your vacation investment is too important to risk on an inferior product or a straight package that has simply been labeled gay. Don’t discount small areas or local bed and breakfasts. They may not be resorts, but you’ll find many that offer some excellent women-owned and/or women popular cafs, restaurants and night clubs.
Hotel accommodations arent always the best solution for many travelers, especially those seeking a lot of privacy. Budget-minded gay and lesbian travelers may want the option of preparing their own meals at their convenience. They may travel as larger groups of friends who wish to share a common living space without sacrificing the privacy of separate bedrooms. And they dont want to step down from the quality of life they have at home.
There is nothing wrong with expecting clean, centrally located accommodations with elevator and maid service, close to public transportation. Others, on a less restricted budget, may wish to enjoy the finest accommodations that the world has to offer. All with the feeling of spaciousness afforded by suite accommodations. You can find exactly what you’re looking for, you just need to do your homework.
With the right help (usually from a travel agent) you can find accommodations that are gay and lesbian friendly and will leave travelers wondering if they ever left their own front door. You can have the choice of eating out or preparing your own meals. You can enjoy the luxury of entertaining in your own living room and then later, sinking back into an overstuffed sofa and relaxing, surrounded by the comforts and charm of a fine home. Best of all, you will be able to enjoy all this at up to half the cost of comparably-appointed upscale hotels.
If you cherish making life-long friendships, both gay and straight, then setting up your vacation correctly is very important. With the right preparation you will find the the most gay-friendly holidays available and enjoy style and elegance as you relax. Always remember, a festive experience is guaranteed when traveling with other gay passengers.